Secret Boyfriend soundtracked my morning with a single song.In January, the long-running, always exploratory project of Carrboro experimental impresario Ryan Martin will issueThis Is Always Where You’ve Lived, his second album for the great Blackest Ever Black. The eight-minute “Memorize Them Well” is the premiere cut from that record, and its slowly fluctuating synthesizer hum and beat-machine plod hang perfectly between a lurid nightmare and a sweet dream.…